You say "yes" when your whole body is screaming "no!"
You feel guilty when you put your needs first.
You shrink yourself to feel accepted.
I know that life
I'm a certified self-love, personal development coach, TEDx speaker and author. I speak to the parts of us that learnt to shrink, stay silent and keep the peace even at the cost of our joy.
Through honest coaching, radical self-love and tools that actually stick, I support people who are ready to stop performing and start living. I create space for people to feel seen, heard and to live their truth.
What Clients Say
Words cannot begin to express the gratitude that I have now that I'm a new version of myself, and it is all thanks to the coaching sessions that I had with you for the past three months. I now see things in a different light and most importantly I now see myself in a different light. I love and respect myself more than before. I've learned to put myself and my needs before other people, I've learned to set boundaries with those around me to protect the love that I have for them.
I started my program in January, I was a right mess and the new year felt like I had to do something to change. I was always trying to keep everyone happy, and totally forgetting about myself, a massive people pleaser. Khanyi changed my life. I've finally learned to say "no" without feeling guilty, I'm way more confident, way less of a pushover, and just generally a happier, more sorted person and finally love myself.
The past three months have been truly transformational, and I know I'll look back on this time as the period when my life took a new bright turn. You've guided me through deep conversations and powerful revelations, reminding me that I'm not a human doing, I'm a human being. I've learned to set boundaries without guilt, to date myself, to buy myself flowers, and to practice compassion toward myself.
When I enrolled in Khanyi's coaching, I was tired of dating the "same man with different names." Her response was that it had nothing to do with the man in my life, but rather with me for continuing to accept the same type of man. Since then, I've fallen in love with myself and developed a healthy relationship with myself. I have boundaries, and that is evidenced by how I respond to situations. Now I spend my money and time with purpose. Thank you Coach
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